Partha Nandi MD, FACP
Healthy relationships are essential to our physical and mental well-being, as they provide social support, reduce stress, and help us feel valued. A healthy relationship may look different for each person, but most healthy relationships share common characteristics.
A healthy relationship is one that makes both parties feel good. A healthy relationship is equal – not one-sided.
A healthy relationship is respectful – mutually respectful. A healthy relationship is honest – open communication.
A healthy relationship is loving – affection and caring for each other.
A healthy relationship is safe – healthy boundaries.
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